WATER WONDERS

If you’re a long-time user of sex toys like myself, you will know how hard it is to keep up with new materials and how they react to water and lube. Especially over the past two years, there has been somewhat of a boom in terms of new technology in sex toy design. I’ve honestly given up keeping track of them.

However, one of the things that I do look out for is the toys that are designed to be fully waterproof. That is important in a humid climate where the heat can have damaging effects to some materials.

I’ve had my fair share of disappointing sex toys which claimed to be ‘washable by water’ but because the materials are slightly absorbent, you won’t know just how well you wipe them dry. In the end, the water seeps out, reacts with the outer layer and if kept hidden for some time, can have adverse effects. The surface just starts to peel or melt away.

Remember, ‘washable by water’ is not the same thing as waterproof, as I’ve found out. The only way you can be totally assured that they are dry is if you use a hair-dryer – something I find too strenuous and cumbersome after the exhaustion of solo play.

The good news is that new technology has also addressed this. Take Edenfantasys for instance who have on offer, a wide range of sex toys that are absolutely waterproof. If doesn’t mean that you don’t need to wash and dry them properly but it does mean that you have a toy that will last considerably longer.

The range of waterproof sex toys at Edenfantasys are amazing. I mean having waterproof dildos are already super but when you have vibrators which are also waterproof, you will be sent to vibrating heaven. No, you don’t want to go splashing water near the battery compartments but at least you can safely wash your vibrator without worrying about it seeping into where the wires and electrical components are.

For their Spring-Break Sale, they are now offering up to 25% off on their waterproof vibrators. No! I won’t be getting any because I’ve already got mine some time ago. And Yes! I am envious because I didn’t get the 25% discount then.

Missus Singapore out!


This post was sponsored by Edenfantasys.com.

CAMELTOE WATCH

I was at the beach the other day with some friends and they were having some biathlon competion which was quite excting to watch. It was quite a big event which, judging by the number of participants and an equally huge number of spectators.

Since it seemed like a women-only event, needless to say that the majority of the spectators were men, out for an afternoon of wholesome oogling. And we overheard some of the guys talking about the cameltoes on show.

Well I suppose, guys will be guys and girls will be girls. I mean we do love to oogle at the men as they emerge from the water running with all their glistening muscles, however, looking below the groin, as you would expect, is often quite disappointing.  I mean you get what I'm saying right - cold water, shrinkage, etc.

However, obviously it was not the case for the women who only had quite obvious cameltoes to show. It was cameltoe and boobs and that was it for the guys. But for us, we were quite amazed with the bodies of the women participants. They were powerful looking, toned and so tanned. I envy them but it's a pity that their cameltoe show distracted many men from just what good athletes they were.

I used to do track in my school days and sadly, the shorts we convent girls were issued were uncomfortable and a size too big. They were more like skirts if you asked me. On top of that, they were loose and cameltoes were non-existent. But seriously, it would have been so much easier to run with the kind of running shorts they have these day.

Missus Singapore out!

ORIGINS OF A RED HEAD

After their baby was born, the panicked father went to see the Obstetrician.

'Doctor,' the man said, 'I don't mind telling you, I'm a little upset because my daughter has red hair. She can't possibly be mine!!'

'Nonsense,' the doctor said. 'Even though you and your wife both have black hair, one of your ancestors may have contributed red hair to the gene pool.'

'It isn't possible,' the man insisted. 'This can't be, our families on both
sides had jet-black hair for generations.'

'Well,' said the doctor, 'Let me ask you this. How often do you have
sex???'

The man seemed a bit ashamed.

'I've been working very hard for the past year. We only made love once or
twice every few months.'

'Well, there you have it!' the doctor said confidently.

'It's rust!!'

Missus Singapore out!

INDECENT PROPOSALS

I've been getting quite a number of 'indecent proposals' lately for some reason. Most of them seem to be wanting to experience the 'touch' of an MILF's wand. Well, I'm honestly quite flattered but unless you are a FB, a friend or an aquaintance at least, I'm afraid I'll need some compensation for my time. LOL!

Maybe I will run a reality blog on Nailing a Milf! Who knows. Also, I like to thank all the many suggestions and ideas those of you who have took the trouble to send in. I'm mulling on them and when I decide, you will be the first to know. I like the one on Naked Thursday, where I post a naked shot of me for all my readers.

Missus Singapore out!

A WOMAN'S SCORN

Well, they say 'Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman's Scorn' and judging by these photos sent in by a loyal reader of Missus Singapore, it appears that some women are doing all they can to keep true to the saying.  I love the last one most of all!

I remember a friend of mine who caught her husband cheating on his colleague. She sent this other woman a bouquet of flowers with helium filled balloons saying something like, 'You can have him. I've used him and find that his dick is too small for me. I've included a dildo which you will find really handy.'

There was a dildo in it - a used one of course - and the flowers were charged with her husband's card. She is now happily remarried with her old school sweetheart, whom I'm told is well built where it matters.

Missus Singapore out!

VIDEO OF THE WEEK

Here's what can happen when you strip for someone online when the coast is not clear! Just the laugh you need to get your motor up and running for the week. Have a healthy and productive week ahead!

Missus Singapore out!

PERFECT GIFT

Guys love their Swiss Army Knives! Here's something us gals will love! Inroducing the Swildo. It doesn't come in pocket size, only purse size for obvious reasons. I think it will be a major seller in due course. It's something every woman should not leave home without.

Missus Singapore out!

THE UNSUSPECTING HOOKER (PART 2)

(...continued from yesterday)

So I went down on him without saying a word and could hear him moaning in delight. It was a wild job, very sloppy and could feel with every swallow that he was getting bigger and harder. It was a lovely tool, not excatly big or long but thick and veiny. Besides, he had nice, big and heavy nuts which was a delight to play with.

I was terribly wet by this point and with his head in the air, I stood up, got out of my clothes, went on the bed on all fours, and offered him to take me from behind. Definitely not like me!

He proceeded to position himself behind me and slipped his hard tool in. I was - you might say - well-lubricated at this point. He banged like there was no tomorrow and slapped my ass cheeks really hard. It was a good pounding ( which I thought then that I deserved) and although it was done a little sooner than I had hoped for, I was satisfied that I too got off just before he sprayed his hot load all over my ass. It was wild. It was spontaneous. And it was like nothing I ever imagine I would be doing.

As I lay on the bed, he went to get a drink. I decided to gather my clothes, put them on and was just about to take my leave when he told me that there was something on the table top for me. I walked to it, saw only four crisp $50 bills sitting there. Again, not like me but I took them, folded them up and placed them in my bag as I looked and smiled at him.

The worse part was that I didn't think anything of it at the time but as I was in the lift heading to the lobby, it suddenly dawned on me that I had officially - whether I liked it or not - been admitted into the oldest profession in the world.

Missus Singapore out!

THE UNSUSPECTING HOOKER (PART 1)

After yesterday's post on the results on the Cash For Sex Poll, I received several emails asking me to share my exploits. Well, I will share one.

It was back in the mid-80s. I was modelling at the time and met up with this agent from Hong Kong. He was a young but flashy guy and took some of us models out for supper after a show we did for him. He was the perfect gentleman, was good-looking and had a firm body.

So anyway, after supper, he invited some of us up to his hotel room for a night cap. We agreed because there were like six of us and only one of him. So we proceeded up and had a nice time. Mid-way through, I felt myself getting really aroused by the way the guys spoke and moved. I can't quite put a finger on what it was but he got my juices flowing.

So when my fellow models decided it was time to up and leave, I didn't, making up some excuse that I needed to speak with him about something. They didn't think anything about it and just left. That was perhaps quite daring (and stupid) of me but my excuse was that I was young and foolishly horny at that moment in time. There was no blood in my head.

So after they left, he poured me another drink but before he could turn around from the counter, I was on my knees, and as he turned, I reached to unzip his trousers. He was shocked initially but soon placed the glasses down and helped me get his pants undone.

(...to be continued) 

Missus Singapore out!

CASH FOR SEX? (POLL 43)

Interesting! Interesting indeed. Apparently, many of you are hooker-wannabes! In the recent poll I held recently, a whopping 82% of women have exchanged sexual favours for cash! I didn't think times were that bad! And here I was thinking I am such a slut! I feel so much better thank you very much.

Here are the details.

Have You Ever Exchanged Sexual Favours For Cash?

Yes: 117 (82%)
No: 25 (18%)

Total no. of Votes: 142

In the same poll, I asked the guys the following and here are the results.

Have You Ever Given Cash/GIFTS To A Woman For Sex?

Yes: 102 (58%)
No: 72 (42%)

Total no. of Votes: 174

Well apparently, there are more nasty women than men out there. In fact I think some of you are getting seconds!

Missus Singapore out!

DANGERS OF ALCOHOL

James Bond sent this in, amongst many he regularly contributes. I had to post this because somehow, it reminds me of me.

A man walks into a cocktail lounge and approaches a French woman. He offers, "May I buy you a cocktail?" "No thank you," the women replies, "alcohol is bad for my legs."

"Sorry to hear that. Do they swell?"

"No, they spread."

Missus Singapore out!

PORN OF THE FUTURE

Helen from Corpus Christie, Texas, sent this in saying that it's the desktop wallpaper of her husband's computer. She also says that this will one day be the face of porn. Well, I think guys still love the feel of flesh but who knows, they might get bored of us one day, and these robots will do anything they want. So perhaps, there is something for us to worry about.

Missus Singapore out!

VIDEO OF THE WEEK

This is one of the most hilarious things I've seen in a long time. Every part of it will help get your week off with a cheeky grin on your face. I especially love the part showing the penis ejaculating (if only). And then there is the cup full of semen. I wonder how many guys they got to fill it up. Or how about that stern looking nurse showing how to give a proper blowjob if you have dentures. Just hilarious. Have a good one!

Missus Singapore out!

FIT FOR THE ACT

A recent survey I read about found out that the path to a healthy sex life has to do with living a healthy lifestyle. Duh? Haven't I been saying that for the longest time.

The main thing to know is that a healthy cardio workout can reap libido-boosting benefits. The sex is better when you are healthy and fit. And there is no doubt many of you have discovered that the best time to have a good sex workout is after a gym workout when your sex drive seems to be at a peak.


The parts to work out are essentially the muscle zones you use for sex most - abs, butt, thighs, breasts, arms and back. So what are you waiting for, get into shape.

Speaking of shape, I've a little sad that some of my friends from school have totally let themselves go. I'm not putting down anyone who is overweight but I'm just saying that these are the lot I often hear about how dead their sex lives are. Besides, some bird told me that you might just be a walking time-bomb health-wise.

They always find excuses and occupy themselves with other chores and never get down to addressing their weight issues. I have one friend who is so pre-occupied with baking that she always says she is too busy for sex. But when I ask her what she misses most in her life, her answer - a hot sex session!!

To think she was once a slim, sexy and petite girl.

Another excuse, having children. Yeah sure, blame it on the kids. Your body is your responsibility and no one else's.

Missus Singapore out!

TASTY SEX TIPS

It’s a known fact that the longer a guy waits to cum, the more intense it is. But as many guys have told me, the problem is that it’s a lot easier in theory than it is to put to practice. So when a guy is fully aroused, chances are he is fighting hard in holding back from climaxing.

That said, on the other side of the fence, many women wrongly assume that his growing excitement translates to him wanting to ejaculate as soon as possible. Of course it’s a matter of body over mind and when it’s a battle between fighting off a cum and cumming, the latter always wins.

The best thing I can suggest is to take a strategic time-out. Try not to go at it with the same intensity from the word ‘Go’. Try the start-stop method. Focus can be turned to (READ: Pull the thang out) the woman (Yay!) as the man goes down on her or plants kisses all over her body. Yes, we ladies do like that!

Of course you can’t do that indefinitely but the best thing is to get the woman off first and eventually, have a mind-blowing one yourself. I’m told the orgasms this way are quite amazing.

If you’re very comfortable with each other, a woman can try applying some firm pressure on the tip of his penis after he pulls out of her. This will take some of the pressure off him and prolong his climax a little longer.

I remember some time ago, there was this young fella. All macho and what have you but he was ultra horny (so he says), but I see it as a bit of a pre-mature ejaculator! He gets hard fast no doubt, but all you really needed to do was hold his tool in your hand and bam, out it cums. A good load but hell, you can almost forget about any form of penetrative sex.

Missus Singapore out!

THREE OLD MEN

Here's something for you guys to look forward to when you grow old. Thanks Jamess Bond for this and it's good to hear from you again.

Three old men were sitting around complaining about how much their hands Shook. The first geezer said, "My hands shake so bad that when I shaved this morning I cut my face!"

The second old fogey one-upped him. "My hands shake so bad that when I trimmed my garden yesterday I sliced all my flowers!"

The third old man laughed and said, "That's nothing. My hands shake so bad that when I took a piss yesterday, I came three times."

Missus Singapore out!

ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Queenie from South Africa writes, "Missus Singapore, I have this thing. I am married but I just can't stop thinking and fantasising about good looking men making love to me. I won't do it but I do feel guilty about it. Am I not made for marriage. I wrote in about the same issue to several magazines which have yet to respond to me. I was hoping you would."

MS: My dear Queenie, you are married, not dead. Marriage does not mean that you submit yourself to a lifetime as a nun. It's normal and if you think your husband doesn't have the same thoughts, you are wrong. Men have them all the time.

It's really alright to harbour such fantasies but I'd be more comfortable if your husband is also in the loop of your 'mental indiscretions', if he is open minded, that is. You can share your fantasies and you'll find that these can really add some spice to your sex lives. A little teasing of the male ego, albeit with subtelty, can drive him to want to 'our-perform' and 'pound away' any ideas you have of being with another man. It works wonders.

If you both talk more openly, you'll find too that it will not only help spruce up your sex lives but work to smoothen other areas of your marriage. With that comes trust. Give it a shot.

Missus Singapore out!

SHARE YOUR IDEAS

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I am looking at new ways to spruce up Missus Singapore in the coming months and I'd like to know your suggestions. If you have any ideas you like to share with me, I'd be glad to listem to them. Thanks so much.

Missus Singapore out!

DEEP INSIDE

Talk about wanting to get deep in a woman, this guys sure has achieved it! I bet it would definitely win a costume party but probably land him in a lot of trouble! Thanks for this Alicia. Sure made my day!

Missus Singapore out!

VIDEO OF THE WEEK

Here is a good video to start your week off, with a big great blow! Just make sure you get your job properly done, unlike the woman in this clip. Thanks Michael from Singapore. And it's good to know you had the real thing in your multi-storey carpark.

Missus Singapore out!

PROPER EYE CONNECTION

I met a few friends for tea yesterday. I was coming from a meeting and was about an hour early so I decided to sit and chill for a bit. Of course, it was inevitable that I began people watchin.

The alfresco cafe was filled with mostly couples and I began watching them. Interestingly, except for a SINGLE couple, the rest hardly established any amount of eye-contact to make me think that their relationship was going any further. They were cold, and it was almost clear that they would rather be somewhere else. And the texting, well, what can I say?

The fact of the matter is everyone enjoys looking at something they find appealing and if very little to no eye contact is present, then it's very difficult to find a connection. Any kind of connection is good to begin with.

Of course, I am assuming their history but it was too overwhelming and quite clear that many couple do not establishe enough eye contact during conversation. It could be a Singapore thing - you know the conservative Singaporean - but again, I think not. At least not with the younger generation who claim to be bolder and more forward.

Even if you are the shy sort, you still really need to have eye contact when he is speaking to you. Unless of course you really despise him which brings up the question of why you are sitting across the table from him in the first place. If you keep looking anywhere else but at him, he will eventually get the message and it's hard to see you going any further.

Relationships are all about building from the bottom up and communication offers a solid foundation.

There was however, one woman who appeared super confident and spent all the time looking and gazing at her partner. It was kind of freaky. Maybe she couldn't get her eyes off him, but I could feel that the guy was getting a little nervous, awkward even. You can overdo it.

Just remember that eye contact is so underrated, yet so vital in creating a link to your partner. Many things good can come out of it.

Missus Singapore out!

SINCE THE DAWN OF TIME

Judging from the idols in the photo sent in by Sandra from Hong Kong, it seems that having a big tool has always been a preoccupation of the male gender. I suppose women are equallly culpable when if comes to body image and looks. Imagine if we could one day come to accept ourselves as we are? The fashion and make-up industry would collapse in no time. And penis pumps would become obsolete.

Missus Singapore out!

SMOKE OF CHANGE

I am what some might refer to as a social smoker. Only when I'm out or after a good sex workout do I really indulge. I can go weeks without a puff, no actually months, and it doesn't bother me.

But what I find curious is how the image of smoking has become the exact opposite of what it used to be. Here is an ad from the 1960s where it was the 'IN' thing to be seen puffing around. Hell, even scientists, teachers and sportsmen promoted it, which I found really interesting.

Even porn from the 70s and early 80s - where everyone seemed to be puffing - is nothing like the 'healthy' porn of today.

Missus Singapore out!

CELEBRATING WOMANHOOD

There are many aspects of womanhood today. Since making major inroads and imposing themselves in society from the early 80s, women have come to realise the huges roles that they now have to play. It's so easy to sit back and lament about responsibilities in the home, at the workplace, as a mother, wife, daughter, sister and girlfriend, but that, I feel, is selling oneself short. We should rise above that and embrace it as part of the territory that we so vigourously sought. 

Perhaps the most important thing a woman can do is to believe in herself, to strive to accomplish her goals, and of course, feed her desires. Instead of being overwhelemed with her tasks, she should focus on improving her ability to acomplish them. After all, a happier and healthier woman can only mean she would be more productive in all the roles mentioned above.

Taking time off for oneself is crucial. It's part of the fueling process where we are rejuvenated and encouraged to push on with our duties with inspiration and not desperation. From my many observations, I have noticed how many women make sacrifices which affect their mental state of calm. Frustrations soon set in if its not curbed.

So to mark International Women's Day this year, let's take it upon ourselves to let people around us know that we too need time out to chill. We need our own private time to reflect, recharge and release. I doubt many of us think that being a woman is a curse. But in order to enjoy the full beauty and potential of our gender - physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually - we need to take control of our lives. And while you are at it, it's time to be true to yourselves and no longer inhibit your dreams, goals and desires.

If you really want to spoil yourself, load up on the ingredients - candles, oils and scents - to turn your bedroom or bathroom into a stress-relieving boudoir. If lingerie be your thing, there is no reason why you can't sell the idea to your partner on why you deserve it. Silk or satin on skin is a combination made in heaven. The time to start spoiling yourself is now!

Missus Singapore out!

 
This post was sponsored by EdenFantasys.com.

DISAPPOINTING CLAIM

I was at a guy friend's place the other day and had lots of fun catching up. A few other mutual friends of ours were there too. One of them, whilst looking through his wide collection of DVDs, stumbled upon the now famous (or infamous) Annabel Chong's Gangbang, which he had picked up in the US while he was there for work.

I've heard about it, seen photos and even short clips of the event but never the full movie. So, needless to say, I was quite excited that I finally had the chance to do so. So we all sat around his 40-inch flatscreen, chips and popcorn in hand, and got the movie started.

An hour and a half later, I was left totally disappointed with the whole record-breaking event. 251 men had sex with her, that was true. But judging by the way it was conducted, it was not as impressive as I had expected it to be.

Each guy had less than two minutes. They were already hard, thanks to the many fluffers around. And they were already close to cumming, so a few strokes in the star, and that was it. Moreover, there was a two hour break!!!!  And the pounding, was hardly pounding in its true sense. Totally disappointed but I understand it was just for the sake of going for the record.

I remember watching another one, of a girl who had 30 men! Much fewer but hell, there was pounding that could send you to the moon and back in that one. Maybe I should go for my own record breaking stunt!

Missus Singapore out!

MOOD BOOSTERS

Here is a tip to rev up your mood for sex. It was sent in by Jessica Myapisco. She is a 39-year old working mother of three boys.

"I fell sexy when I get the opportunity to slip into a silk slip after a long hot bath. A few drops of my favourite fragrance and I just feel like I'm ready to go. It's important that we take the time to look after ourselves and do the things that reduce our stress. That works towards getting us in the mood. Men don't have this problem because they are always ready to go."

MS: Thanks Jessica for sharing this.

Missus Singapore out!

VIDEO OF THE WEEK

Sometimes, taking things into your own hands and being spontaneous, can have serious consequences to one's career. Enjoy the video and have a great week.

Missus Singapore out!

GIRLS TO SCORE WITH

I read this interesting survey that found a relationship between a woman’s name and how lucky you are to score with her. Apparently, a woman whose first name ends in an “a” is more likely to have sex with you because she seems to have more sexual partners.

The survey was conducted by French online dating service Smartdate who measured the sexual activity of its users. The survey found that “women whose names end with the letter “a” reported having more than the average 4.4 sexual partners during their lifetime.”

Am I reading this right? 4.4?? I had to do a double take and it seems that it was right. It makes me feel a – for a lack of a better term – slut!

So technically, you are more likely to score with a Anna, Emma, Laura and Tania than an Amy, Kate, Susan or Deborah! I however, beg to differ.

Missus Singapore out!

FAMILY PLANNING

I love this piece of advice! Definitely something to ponder over. It might just be the only thing that is 100% safe. Thanks Mike!

Missus Singapore out!

WHO'S GOT BIG BALLS?

I am prepared to present this trophy for the guy with the biggest balls! LOL! Just received this from Helen Tooley, from the UK, who sent this in. I actually came across this guys sometime back. If you have been following my blog you would remember this fella who had apple balls! Seriously.

Back then however, it was freakish. However, when I met him years later, I was more curious to find if there was any relation between nut size and load stored within. I now know there is no link but if researchers had included him in their study, he would have proven their theory wrong because he had a load that was messy to say the least.

I understood later why he insisted and pushed for me to give him a blowjob in the nearby park bench and not inside his dad's car. But he sure as hell had me drenched!

But in all truth, the size of a guys nuts has no co-relation whatsoever with how big a load he has because the mechanics of the male organs just don't work that way i.e. testicles do not produce semen.

Missus Singapore out!

LET SEX OUT OF THE BAG

In case you are not up to speed, we here is Singapore have one of the lowest birth rates in the world. Of course this is a phenomenon that many other developed countries are also experiencing today, but not as serious as what we are facing here.

So to counter this trend, the government introduced a Baby Bonus scheme years ago, hoping that it would help encourage couples to have more children by giving out money - the amount of which depends on the number of children a couple has.

With the high cost of having children in Singapore a constant obstacle, that is merely the tip of the iceberg. With all the so-called experts they have sought advice from, it's really odd that money it seems is touted as the main solution. Only now they have determined that it's not working. This coming from the same government who claims it has the best minds on board!

Here are the problems. Firstly, couples are way to exhausted to have sex, let alone think about it, thanks to the high cost of living as adults. No kids are in the equation yet and many of us are already grappling to find time to chill, let alone time to have sex. Bills and more bills to deal with can be a damper to one's libido.

Secondly, sex remains a taboo in our society. It has tried to break out many times but failed miserably. As a result, problems in the bedroom are rarely spoken about. Forget the problems, even sex as an act is hardly spoken openly about.

The blame here, I feel, falls to some extent on the government which has - via very conservative censorship authorities - sterilised many people's mindsets on sex. Imagine, it was only recently that they began allowing Cosmopolitan to be sold here! Articles like 'How to seduce your man', '20 ways to better sex', 'Foreplay towards better sex', 'Get Oral Before Anything Else' were deemed too raunchy for our local audience. Now, they bring it back thinking that it had no effect to the sexual attitudes of its citizens. Again, the same top-minds figured this out!

It's not just Cosmo ( I am using it as an example), but the whole realm of sex that has been sterilised. Just ask any top sex doctors here (OBGYs and Urologists mostly) and they will tell you there is just not enough time to list the common sexual problems that plague many couples.

Believe it or not, in my many conversations, I have been shocked that adult men and women, many of them highly educated, do not even know how to please their partners or even have sex. You know, the penetrative type where you get each other aroused and thereafter get the man to slip his penis into his partner's vagina? Sterile enough for you?

It's just about the act of procreation and not about the lead up to it which if made enjoyable, will get them to want to have more of it. With enjoyment of the act, comes the natural progression of intimacy, love, bond formation and eventually, the a greater likelihood of them consumating their relationship with the creation of a baby.

Sex should be spoken about, and watched even. Adult magazines can be educational too. Porn, I dare say, especially the conventional run-of-the mill sort, does have its merit when it comes to providing tips to learn from and apply.Take seduction and steamy sex talk (foreplay too) for instance. Is someone suppose to say 'Dear, I think it's time to slip your penis into my vagina'. Don't laugh because this is commonly what several doctors have told me about how sex talk between many couples takes place, and that is if there is any talking at all.

Contrast to 'Baby, are you gonna fuck me with that hard dick or watch my hot juices go to waste!'

Sex is just so boring here and money for having babies is not going to change that mindset anytime soon. One really has the impression that all in government don't seem to have a sexual identity. It is just serious men and women who rather not touch on the subject of sex. Stop talking ahead of yourselves.  Before babies can be had, sex has to be enjoyed!

Why would anyone want to bring a baby in the world when the level of intimacy between parents is far from desirable. It's all very technical here. You try a few times, it doesn't bear fruit, you go for IVF!

If they are really sincere about it, they have to loosen up, chill a little more and accept that sex is a natural human instinct! It is not dirty, taboo or bad if both parties are consenting. It's time to stop blaming things on a conservative society because it's a legacy from poor social planning and dour family planning strategies where sex is never in focus at all! It's time to teach couple about how to enjoy sex and equip them with all the skills and energy to make their bedroom antics pay off.

Case in point, I once asked a person working in the local censorship why a certain sex education website for couples was banned and her reply almost had me fall off my chair. "It has the man from behind position!' WTF? Doesn't she know that a woman can still get knocked up that way, but of course enjoy it a lot more??

Missus Singapore out!